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To couples:

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Dear Wendy,

wow.. you’ve been through so much for such a young age.. I’m sorry. Don’t give up on love. There is someone out there for you. Just keep patient. I promise, once you find the one, it’ll all be worth it. Love is what keeps us all together. Love is such a tricky thing that only few people understand, but that’s no excuse to give up. I know this’ll be hard to hear, but you shouldn’t be mad at your friend. No one is perfect. We all make mistakes. You need to forgive her because if you dont, you’ll become bitter, and you’ll build up resentment, which is never a good thing. I always remind myself that to see the rainbow, you have to go through rain. You seem like an amazing girl. You are so beautiful. Your body is perfect just the way it is. You were made flawlessly. Your hair is so stunning. You have an elegant face. Your eyes are such a gorgeous color; they compliment your lovely skin tone. Your lips are so adorable, and they are such a cute color! Just rememeber that you are loved by so many people, and there is always atleast one person out there who adores you and sees the worth and potential you have. Don;’t lose your true character or personality. Always be yourself. You’re a gorgeous girl. Don’t ever think any differently of yourself.

-M.

Hey there!

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You are too beautiful of a women to be brought down by such hateful people. They’re mostly jealous of you or insecure in their looks. Don’t let them bring you down. I really admire your relationship and your love for your boyfriend. I know exactly how you feel about getting criticized for not having sex. Me and my boyfriend are going through the same exact thing. If you’re not ready, don’t do it. It warms my heart to see a young lady realize she’s not ready and that she needs to wait. Don’t give away something so precious for just a whim. Don’t ever let the pressure get to you. Be strong. It is very possible to meet your spouse in high school. Studies say by the age of 16, you’ve already met the person you’re gonna marry. I believe you’re never too young to fall in love because you’re never too young to die. Despite what he’s going through, it sounds like he really loves you. I understand if you’re scared; believe me, it’s just human nature to be scared. I get scared of the same thing too, but to me dear, it sounds like he loves you. I say.. just be careful. Do what feels like the right thing to do. Don’t ever do anything if you’re not sure about it. You sound like such a lovely person with a very very lovely soul. You overall have a beautiful face. Your eyes are such a stunning shade. Weight does not define beauty. You are so beautiful. You have such amazing skin. It’s so smooth, and your skin tone is a very elegant shade. It goes beautifully with your eyes. Your smile.. Wow. Your smile is radiant. It lights up this whole picture. Your teeth are so white, straight, and perfect. The shade of your hair compliments everything about your face. I love your hair color. You seem like an amazing girl with her head and heart in the right place. Good luck for you and your boyfriend in the future.

Sincerely, M.

Dear Sandra,

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Wow. Sandra, you are such a beautiful girl. Don’t be jealous over your smaller friends. Just because you’re bigger than some other girls DOES NOT make you any less beautiful. Beauty does not come in a small waist or size number - it comes from the inside. I can already see that you are such a beautiful girl on the inside and the outside. I think you’re beautiful just the way you are. You have such gorgeous, long hair; it’s also a very stunning color that looks great on you. You have a lovely smile. You have such a gorgeous skin tone. You look so tan, and I can’t tan at all. I’m so pale. You’re so lucky. You have such soft, adorable eyes. Your nose is so cute. Please, don’t ever think of comparing yourself to other girls or being jealous of them. You were made so beautifully made and put together. Don’t ever wish to look like someone else. You are so unique.

Sincerely, M.

Dear Jasmine,

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Well, you have a beautiful name to start off. The fact that you said you love to read made me smile. I love to read. Ahhh! A cat! I love cats; I think they’re adorable. You seem like someone I’d be friends with.

You are so so beautiful. I love the way your hair is cut. I’ve always wanted my hair like that, but I never think I could pull it off. It looks very, very cute on you! Your curls are so stunning. Your eyes are incredible. The have a soft feel to them. like they’re so calm and relaxed, and that’s beautiful. I’ve always wished my eyes were that color. I’m very jealous of your looks. You have such a cute smile. I wish you’d smile with your teeth. I don’t even have to see it, but I know it’s beautiful. I love the natural complexion in your face. It seems like you have a few freckles! I love freckles; I wish I had some. They are the most adorable thing ever! That purple is a gorgeous color on you. Purple’s also my favorite color. You are such a lovely young lady.

Sincerely, M.

Dear Nicole,

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Wow.. Nicole.. Don’t be so harsh on yourself, please.. I love you (lots of people love you) and think you’re wonderful. Don’t hate yourself. I’m glad your boyfriend tells you you’re beautiful because it’s true. Listen to him; he’s right. It’s okay to look to him for confidence, but try to find some inner confidence as well. Don’t set your standards too high. Standards are good, until they become unattainable. Seventeen sounds like a rough age to go through, but don’t let anyone bring you down. Don’t listen to anyone who tells you that you’re not good enough or pretty enough. You are more than good enough. If a girl (or guy) says you’re ugly, don’t listen to them. They’re just insecure about their looks, and they’re jealous of such a beautiful lady like you.

You are such a beautiful girl. You have such a wonderful, elegant face. Your eyes are gorgeous, and your eyebrows bring out your eyes. You have a lovely nose. That blue looks great on you. You have such radiant, long hair. I love it. The color brings out the natural beauty in your face. I hope everything goes well for you in the future.

Sincerely, M.

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Dear, Arissa

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You have a beautiful name to match your beautiful face.

I understand that you may worry about a lot in life, but that’s part of being a teenager. It’s going to be hard, but try to be optimistic about everything. When you think, “Oh, I don’t look good today,” tell yourself that it doesn’t matter. If someone is your friend, they don’t care what you look like. Boys. Oh my. Don’t worry about boys; let them worry about you. If they’re interested, just wait for them to show it. You’re young; don’t waste your time trying to impress boys.

Guilty about everything? That can’t be good. Don’t try to make everybody is happy; that’s impossible. It may sound selfish, but sometimes you must think about yourself first. You need to be happy. You may not want to spend time trying to figure out what’s going on in your head, but sometimes you have to.

Smiles are contagious, so get a smile on your face. (:

Sincerely, A